No doubt every parent wants a stronger connection with their kid. And the advice comes from a clinical counsellor in California whose TikTok page has racked up millions of views on one simple conversation about parenting.

The first tip? Become a fan.  

Yes, it’s easy to zone out when your kid launches into a 20‑minute monologue about dinosaurs, video games, or whatever pop star they’re obsessed with this week. But leaning in — even a little — is prime bonding time.

Second tip: Change the question.  

We’ve all asked, “How was school today,” and got the classic one‑word answer. Instead, try something more specific… “Did you see your friend today?” or “What was the funniest thing that happened?” Suddenly, the door opens and the stories start flowing.

At the end of the day, it all comes down to three things: connection, empathy, and growth.  

Parenting isn’t perfect — but these little shifts can make a big difference.

Good luck. You’re doing better than you think.